Jim Kelsey: husband, father, brother, friend and bishop
Please share with others your memories of Jim Kelsey. We do not yet realize how much he will be missed. He touched so many people and was loved by many.
I will always remember the first time I met Jim and Mary. They had come to Marquette to interview for the job of Minestry Coordinator with Tom Ray. I had to be away from the diocese and arranged to meet in O'Hare Airport between flights. They were both walkin about 3 feet above the groung with excitement for the new job. Jim had great enthusiasm for a new position which would put to work all the theology he had developed about baptismal minestry. His life after that was never the same and neither has a lot of peoples'.
oh how we all will miss this warm, caring, loving man who touched so very many lives! an advocate for so many folks, a supporter of all our parishes, a cheerleader for all of our successes, a comforter when we bumbled and always living out Christ's vision for all of us. he was an wonderful example of a bishop, priest, family man, and friend. we all are going to be struggling due to his absence among us. God give him peace. marsha kleber trinity mackinac island
I am a member of Trinity Episcopal Church in San Francisco and have never visited your Diocese. However, I've been aware for some time of the integrity and special qualities of Bishop Kelsey and was greatly saddened last night to learn of his death yesterday. This is a tremendous loss for the Church and a very sad one for the people of Northern Michigan.
We will dedicate our Taize Meditation Service on Wednesday to his memory.
What a terrible loss for the whole church! Jim's reports and reflections on the actions of the General Conventions and meetings of the House of Bishops were the best available anywhere. He perceived the truth of situations and did not flinch from telling the truth. He would have preferred to stay with us to fight against prejudice and injustice in the church and in the world. Jim and Mary were unfailingly kind and generous to Karen and me. We had seen them only last July in Eagle Harbor when Jim came to make his visit to the St. Peter's folks. He preached a good homily. I was looking forward to the possibility that we would see him and Mary again at Eagle Harbor this year. There is a pall of sadness over everything today. Of course, we will find ways to affirm life and hope and eternal life. May Mary and their children find comfort. May all the people of Northern Michigan find comfort and strength to continue. May Jim rest in peace! Steven Powers
I told my husband that Jim was a bishop who worked like a deacon every day of his life. Servanthood could have been his middle name. We first met Jim in 1997 when I returned to Ironwood for my 30th H.S. reunion. He was the celebrant that Sunday at Transfiguration (where my father was rector 1958-1965). We instantly connected. I was studying for the diaconate and interested in his mutual ministry work. I flew up for his consecration; what a Spirit-filled event! I last saw Jim at the national deacon's meeting (NAAD) in Winter Park, FL in 2001, but we kept in touch. NAAD has been so blessed to have him on the Board. He has been the best supporter/advocate for deacons. Oh, how I enjoy my Hiawathaland when it comes in the mail. My love and prayers go out to his dear family and to my "home diocese". Mary Kilbourn-Huey Diocese of Lexington (KY)
Jim always found the best in all of us. He led by such integrity and compassion for all of God's creations. He will be greatly missed by my family. When mother was ill and could not attend Church that day Jim and Mary drove over to our home to see her. I knew he had another appointment elsewhere but he took an hour to visit with mom and pray for her during illness. His commitment to be a catalyst of God's love was always in the on position. Jim leaves a legacy of humor, that grin, his truthful wisdom, his insightfullness, his love of the New York Yankees, and his down to earth approach. He led his life expressing the love of Christ and the wisdom of the Creator. I will miss you my friend, brother, and mentor.
Naturally as everyone else I was shocked and deeply saddened with the untimely passing of Jim Kelsey.
Jim was by far one of the most humble down to earth human beings that I've had the honor of knowing and anyone who came in contact with him and got to know Jim knew he wore his heart on his sleeve. He also had a warm smile that was infectious and once you were in a room with him it was amazing how he could leave an impact on a person after only talking to him for a few minutes.
A few years back I had the oppurtunity to work with Jim and Mary and a whole bunch of amazing people up at the Youth Summer Camp at Page Conference Center and those two summers turned out to be some of the best experiences of my life. I was blown away by Jim's passion to share God's love and how he just conveyed a person who was a great role model for both campers and the staff he worked with. I admired his uncanny ability for photography and how he could catch people in a photograph without them even knowing.
I saw Jim a few weeks back at his annual visit with St. John's in Iron River and despite a little mix up in times (Iron River being in the central time zone) he arrived and spent time after service with the congregation... His demeanor was still genuine just as I have always remembered him... I made sure to catch him before he left and gave him a hug and we said our goodbyes...
His presence will always be a huge influence on my life as he truly touched so many different people and was a inspiration to all.
Thank you Jim for your constant support and inspiration... I will always cherish your friendship and guidance and will miss your insight and presence as it was definitely powerful beyond mere words.
My thoughts and prayers are with Mary and the rest of his family. He will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
Check out Remembering Bishop Jim Kelsey on Episcopal Cafe for many more tributes. I hope those of us who loved him can carry on his dream of a church where all are valued and honored.
Jim Kelsey was one of those rare people who live to see their dreams become incarnate in the world. He learned his strong doctrines in the process of living them, in Vermont villages and struggling U.P. communities where winters are hard and Episcopalians few and far between. He was a "process guy" par excellence, yet with a pastoral heart. The vision of baptismal ministry, begun by Bishop Tom Ray and expanded greatly by Jim, is changing the Episcopal Church from the inside out. Indeed, while great controversies preoccupy the councils of the mighty in the church, a subversive revival is taking place in small communities all over the Anglican world, and the Diocese of Northern Michigan has become a center of pilgrimage for it, with Jim presiding over (he probably would object to the word "over") it all as gentle shepherd and stubborn prophet, as occasion dictated. He does so now from another vantage-point, having crossed over a span far wider than the Straits of Macinac. As for being Bishop of Northern Michigan, it could be said that "for this he was born, and for this he came into the world." His legacy will be a church that is more alive, more accessible, more articulate, and more fun. "All of us go down to the dust; yet even at the grave we make our song for Jim: Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia."
My uncle Jim was the most inspirational, humble, and kind man I've ever known. This is not an exaggeration. His generosity was unlike anything I've ever seen. From before I was even born, Jim was a tremendous influence in my life. He and my aunt Mary extended their home to my mother during her pregnancy. Uncle Jim was there when I was born, he baptized me, and he officiated at my wedding. He was so selfless; anyone who was around him knew this immediately. Jim was a man who just "got it". Life made more sense after spending time with my uncle Jim. There was something about his smile and warm hugs that made you feel better about the world even when it seemed to be falling apart. His love for my aunt Mary and their kids has always been so encompassing and pure, you couldn't help but be envious. I can only hope to emulate that same relationship with my husband and son. What will our family do without our amazing compass? My love is with my beautiful aunt Mary and cousins Nathan, Lydia and Amos. I love you guys so much.
Jim was a great leader he lead by example. He was not afraid to get his hands dirty. Luann and I will remember him best for giving us permission to get married in the church. This was one of the first things he did as the Bishop here in Northern Michigan. We will miss him greatly, but he will be in our hearts forever.
I am grieving the loss of Jim, an amazing and passionate man. His love for God, worship, and people have greatly impacted my Christian life. I first met him at my first Happening retreat in September of 1990. Fr. Jim actually heard my first confession, right after I accepted Christ as my personal Lord and Savior. I was so afraid...and ashamed. When it was over I wept. Then with a hug and his amazing smile I saw and experienced in Fr. Jim the love, grace and forgiveness that our Lord Jesus Christ extends to those that confess and receive. I mourn the loss of Bishop Jim. What a man, what a life... I will be praying for you Mary and family. He has touched so many lives in such a short time. Truly a man of God. With much love and sadness.
Jim asked if I'd be interested in cooking at Page Center for Camp New Day UP when it started up at Page Center in 2002. and then I went on to cook for Bible camp. It was an awesome thing to watch his interaction with the children and young people. He was a shining example of God's love, caring, sharing and a good life! He and Mary had something very special going for them and it came shining through to all who came in contact with them. As I prayed to God with a heavy heart today, I tried to be positive, but it's hard. HE must have felt He needed Jim home, more than we needed him here on earth, but I thanked Him for the gift of Jim in our lives. His compassionate care and loving heart has touched so many of us. He will be greatly missed. Mary, may God keep you and yours in His loving, healing care. Chris Niles St. Paul's Marquette
It seems as though any words I post will fall woefully short of the impact Jim made on my life. All I can say is that I will miss his easy laughter in the good times and his compassion when life has taken some unexpected turns. My prayers go out to his family and all those he touched over the years.
What a tragic end to such a wonderful life. Bishop Jim was SO easy to be around and very supportive of my diaconal ministrys. He attended one of our healing/HE from res'vd sacrament services at a local head trauma clinic and was very moved and encourging. He typed his sermons in short and widely spaced lines of thought that I have copied. I'll have not, nor will I ever, give a sermon that I won't remember my freind, Bishop Jim. Mary, Nathon, Lydia, Amos, Katie, Gail, Eddie, John, John and Shirley, you are in Fran's and my prayers. I am so sorry. Deacon Bill Magie, St Annes' Ankeny, Iowa
I met Jim in 1990. I was taking a sabbatical from Enland studying Every Member Ministry and Small Church Leadership. I started in Oregon but it was in Marquette that I found what I was looking for. Jim, Mary and Tom Ray offered generous hospitality. Jim's work has had a transforming effect on my theology and ministry for which I will always be grateful. Now back in Oregon, I am trying to live and work it out. I was talking about his work at a conference only on Saturday. With prayers for Mary and family.
We have many memories of Bishop Jim and Mary from our bi-ennial trips to The Grand Hotel for the A.M.E.N. Clergy Conference of all the Michigan clergy. He always seemed to be having more fun than anyone. And his warm, beaming smile was so contagious. We were recipients of his warm hospitality two years ago when, as a couple of "clergy-trolls" were invited to the Diocese of Northern Michigan's dinner table. It may have been because the 'troll-wife' was born in Hancock and has a family farm in Toivola, or it may have been because Jim was just so welcoming of everyone. We were made to feel totally at home. We will miss his joviality and extravagant hospitality -- our prayers will be for all you, especially Mary and the children, who knew him and loved him best. God's peace all over you all. Rev.Dr. Ray and Linda Babin Romeo, Michigan Diocese of Michigan
There is such a rush of memories for me -- and I was just a distant friend. I counted him as a friend, and that is what Jim made everyone feel. I remember him leading a small group in simple a capella singing the first time I met him. No fanfare, all so traditional and well-known. But he was able to catch us up in the Spirit and make us feel like "anyone can do it." There was a phrase he shared with me in his office once, describing himself, he said he was a kind of "high church Quaker." I have used that phrase both publicly and in my own reflections to help understand myself. Jim, I miss you.
A mutual close friend called me early (here in Washington State) on Sunday afternoon and told me of Jim's death. My husband, Wayne, and I sat in shock and tears for a time, after which I wrote the following note to the House of Bishops/Deputies e-mail list. I've been asked to share it here.
It was my great honor to "come in second" when Jim was elected (on the first ballot) Bishop of the Diocese of Northern Michigan.
Jim and I had so many friends in common in the total ministry/mutual ministry church, but had never met, and when we met in person in one of the earlier interview sessions in Marquette, we ran into each other's arms and hugged!
Jim and I talked a lot about how easy it is to make an idol of the ministry style which engaged us both so powerfully, the apostolic model that identified local gifts for ministry, trained people and developed those gifts, and then watched over the ministering communities and helped them develop expertise in the areas of ministry to which God was calling them. I was (and am) passionate about being "Matthew 25" Christians in 1998, particularly in the areas of jail/prison and hospital visiting by specifically trained lay ministers. Jim called me after he had been bishop for about a year and told me that I had lit a fire under the UP and that they were working with the national officer for prison ministry in the DoNM! I was so thrilled.
Jim had just been awarded a D.D. honoris causa from EDS for his work in total baptismal ministry, upon which occasion Dr. Fredrica Harris Thompsett commended him for his gifts of hospitality and prophetic ministry in the area of baptismal ministry. She also said: "You not only speak of but you practice 'shared Episcopacy."...We are proud too that you have persistently stood in genuine friendship with lesbian and gay colleagues, worked energetically for ecological justice in territory where natural gifts have mostly been ‘mined away,’ strategically spoken truth to power in recent Bishops’ meetings, and labored as a small diocese in this large land to advance other paths where justice and mercy meet." (Thank you, Jane Cisluycis.)
Jim showed up at the Integrity Eucharist in 2000 at GC-Denver in his customary brown plaid shirt, and I told him, "I know you detest clericalism, but this is the one occasion when you HAVE to wear your purple--so people can identify you as a bishop at this particular service." He wore his purple shirt in Minneapolis at the Integrity Eucharist!
In his last diocesan convention address, Jim talked about Abp. Desmond Tutu's 2005 book, God Has A Dream. He talked about needing to be drawn out of the daily preoccupations of life and into God's dream for the Diocese of NM, for the Church and for the world. He said, "One of my favorite Collects in the Book of Common Prayer is...'Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to that which shall endure...'
"This is something I have found to be true without exception: that when we, any of us, focus on things in our lives that are passing away, we get scared, we get anxious, we get depressed, we lose hope; and when we focus on things that are being birthed and are coming newly into creation, we get excited, we get imaginative, we get optimistic, we feel drawn closer to one another, we feel as if we have meaning and purpose in this life, and we have joy."
"...I really mean to say that our best days do lie ahead. And that what is asked of us is that we give ourselves to it. That we rededicate ourselves to the Dream and to the Journey...It’s about keeping our focus upon God’s Dream. And the wonders and miracles.
"My friends, you know, we are given change as an ingredient in life. We can be frightened and anxious and resistant to it or we can embrace it as a tool to transform us...Do you see? ...that the Dream, God’s Dream, is something which reaches beyond us; beyond the horizon of our own perspective, beyond the outer limits of our sight, beyond what we can imagine possible as resulting from so small and meager a community as is ours.
"Listen again to Desmond Tutu’s words, I ask you. Listen with me, and let us see how we might discover again something about our vocation:
'If you were in heaven now you would notice the tears in God’s eyes. The tears streaming down God’s face as God looked on us and saw the awful things that we, God’s children, are doing to each other. God cries and cries. And then you might see the smile that was breaking over God’s face like sunshine through the rain, almost like a rainbow. You would see God smiling because God was looking on you and noting how deeply concerned you are. And the smile might break out into a laugh as God said, “You have vindicated Me. I had been asking Myself, “Whatever got into Me to create that lot?” And when I see you, yes, you,” God says, “you are beginning to wipe the tears from My eyes because you care. Because you care and you have come to learn that you are not your brother’s or sister’s keeper. You are your brother’s brother and your sister’s sister.” And God says, “I have no one except you. Thank you for vindicating Me.”
All over this magnificent world God calls us to extend God’s Realm of shalom – peace and wholeness – of justice, of goodness, of compassion, of caring, of sharing, of laughter, of joy, of reconciliation. God is transfiguring the world right this very moment through us because God believes in us and because God loves us. What can separate us from the love of God? Nothing. Absolutely nothing.
And as we share God’s love with our brothers and sisters, God’s other children, there is no tyrant who can resist us, no oppression that cannot be ended, no hunger that cannot be fed, no wound that cannot be healed, no hatred that cannot be turned to love, no dream that cannot be fulfilled. (pp.127-128)"'
May ++Desmond's words and +Jim's reach us and comfort us in this time of profound loss. May our prayers surround Mary and the kids. May Jim's soul, and the souls of all the departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
I'm praying for all of you Yooperpalians,
Kathy
Katherine Merrell Glenn+ Diocese of Olympia, Retired "The one who loves another has fulfilled the law." -Romans 13:8
I have wandered around in dazed disbelief since receiving this news Sunday night. Of all the wonderful people I dealt with while at the Church Pension Fund, Jim was one of the very best. The many comments about his authenticity and sense of servant leadership have captured him perfectly.
Our Church is greatly diminished having lost his leadership and potential. Mary and her family have sustained an incalculable loss having had his physical presence and deep love taken from them. Alan Blanchard
Jim Kelsey was one of the gentlest and most caring people I have ever met. His wisodom was so deep. He would celebrate the time we knew him. It is so hard to celebrate through the shock and grief. We all loved him and will miss him
What an incredible man Jim Kelsey was. His death will and has caused such a big hole in all of our lives.
I remember attending a meeting once in Pickford, and had taken my son with me, while Jim was with us inside conducting the meeting, Mary waited outside with my son. During this time Mary and Matthew became great buddies and had shared plans to get together in Marquette during hockey season. This is just an example of what incredible people Jim & Mary were and are....
My heart and prayers go out to Mary and their three children.
I know that Jim rests in his rightfull place amongst the Angels and Saints. But he will be missed here on earth.
Our family only recently came to know Jim and Mary, following our recent move from Brazil. Jim's profound acceptance and understanding of the moments in which we live and the circumstances under which we come to God offered a grace to his presence which gave us great comfort.
Our youngest, Macon said it best, when at winter camp he said he didn't want to go home because he would miss his "new friend" (Jim) and later when I told him of his passing and he punched a nearby towel and said, "I'm really going to miss that guy, I really liked him!" God bless you Jim, may you continue to do God's bidding and God bless you Mary and your children as you move through this moment. We pray for your comfort and healing.
Shelley, Travis and Macon, St. James, Sault Sainte Marie
My heart goes out to you Mary and all Jims family..Such a sad and tragic loss for you especilally and for all of us worldwide who have been touched by Jims love and compassion. Jim had an amazing ability to welcome and sincerely care about EVERYONE he met from world leaders to EVERY smalltown folk..I will miss his smile, his laughter and his joyful presence. Every word I can think of that describes Jesus describes Jim..Wonderful Counselor, Rock, Advocate, Mediator, Light, Prince of Peace Son of God and of course our GOOD SHEPHERD. We his sheep will Greatly miss his leadership..I can feel now the DEEP sense of loss the Apsotles must have felt when Jesus died and when he asending to Heaven.Leaving them to continue sharing the Gospel without his physical prsence....Jim left us with his Wonderful Spirit just as Jesus left us with the Holy Spirit and through the indwelling of both we shall continue on in Gods work..Jims light will forever shine in our hearts and lives..God has welcome HIS BEST home..Mary and family..May the love and prayers of all of us who share in your GREAT grief help you through this MOST difficult time.. In Christs Love and Sympathy Candy Lauk..Iron Mountain, MI
Jim and I went to Ithaca College together; he was one year behind me. Together we worshipped with and did ministry with the United Christian Fellowship(the Protestant Community on campus). We were both profoundly influenced by our two chaplains; the Rev. George Clarkson (Protestant chaplain) and the Rev. Ted Jones (Episcopal Chaplain)
Jim and I both did our field work in the same church - St. Luke's, Montclair, NJ - only 18 years apart!
Jim and I have seen each other a number of times since I moved to Ohio and it has been wonderful to catch up with each other.
Two years ago Jim and Ted and I were in Ithaca where Jim was giving the inaugural lecture in the George Clarkson Lecture series, named in honor of our former chaplian. The title of his talk was "Widening the tent" (I believe) and it was a wonderful reflection on God's love for all of us. That occasion was also the first time in 30 years that Jim and Ted and I had been together, and we talked and talked and talked - as friends and colleagues, not as teacher (Ted) and students (Jim and me). The last time I saw Jim was last summer in Columbus at General Convention. But we exchanged e-mails a couple of weeks ago, and he said he was going to call me this week.
May God' peace be with Jim's family and with all of you in the U.P.
My heart is aching at the loss of our beloved friend Jim. Jim inspired and touched my life many years ago. I participated in many church camps and Happenings of which Jim also attended. In particular I remember Happening #21 in September of 1999. I was the rector (leader) of the weekend. I was also pregnant, 18 and unwed. To most people this would be frowned upon. Most people would not have approved of me leading other teens to Christ given my situation, but Jim encouraged me and gave me strength throughout the entire weekend that same courage led to inner strength throughout the rest of my life thus far. Because of this I named my daughter Kelsey after him. I was so afraid to be unaccepted in the church but Jim accepted everyone! You could meet him for 5 minutes and he was a friend for life! I truly believe that Jim is not done performing miracles and inspiring people. His ministry to the entire world is not over! He will be remember as Saint James Kelsey in my heart forever. Love and prayers to everyone.
I only knew Jim Kelsey for two weeks, first during a mission trip to the UP, and then during our general chapter where he served as Bishop Protector for our sisters in the Community of St. Francis. In that short time, though, I came to love and admire him. He was sweet, generous, and remarkably ego-free, someone far from the stereotypical Episcopal bishop. I admired his commitment to the people of the upper peninsula and his deep knowledge of the congregations and people with whom he served. I pray that the diocese will raise up someone as devoted to mutual ministry and to a fully inclusive church as Jim was. I'll miss the chance to know him better and to share the work in which he so obviously rejoiced. The people of the diocese are in my prayers, especially Mary and their children.
Jim, may Christ welcome you into the light and joy of his reign, and may you rest in peace and rise in glory!
I am deeply saddened and shocked to hear of the tragic death of Jim Kelsey. I've known Jim since he was five years old as a kid on the GTS close when I was student and when I taught him there as a student. He is surely one of the finest men I've known and I have always appreciated that the Kelsey twins were very special. We have lost a very fine leader and the church will miss his wisdom, devotion and prophetic voice. I will write Mary as soon as I can. Please know my prayers will be with the diocese and Mary, Stephen, and his sisters and children at the altar at Old St. Andrew's Church, Charleston tomorrow. May his soul rest in peace and may light perpetual shine on him. Faithfully, John+ (The Rev'd. John Romig Johnson, Ph.D.)
I am deeply saddened and shocked to hear of the tragic death of Jim Kelsey. I've known Jim since he was five years old as a kid on the GTS close when I was student and when I taught him there as a student. He is surely one of the finest men I've known and I have always appreciated that the Kelsey twins were very special. We have lost a very fine leader and the church will miss his wisdom, devotion and prophetic voice. I will write Mary as soon as I can. Please know my prayers will be with the diocese and Mary, Stephen, and his sisters and children at the altar at Old St. Andrew's Church, Charleston tomorrow. May his soul rest in peace and may light perpetual shine on him. Faithfully, John+ (The Rev'd. John Romig Johnson, Ph.D.)
I only met Jim a short while ago, but for the last two days I cannot stop thinking of him. He made such a memorable impression on me in the few interactions we had about his Earth Keeper work. Jim radiates kindness, fairness, and an open heart. I tried to call him "Bishop Kelsey" but he would have none of that. "Please call me Jim," he said. I'm almost 50 years old and I can honestly say that in all that time I have only met one other person as gracious, humble, and kind as Jim. He has gently reminded me of the person I want to be and will now try to be even harder. In my eyes the grass is not as green today and the sky is a paler blue, but in my heart I know that his passing is adding color to all of our lives, his next gift to us. Thank you, Jim, and I bless your radiant spirit. Lissa in Ashland, WI
I only met Jim a short while ago, but for the last two days I cannot stop thinking of him. He made such a memorable impression on me in the few interactions we had about his Earth Keeper work. Jim radiates kindness, fairness, and an open heart. I tried to call him "Bishop Kelsey" but he would have none of that. "Please call me Jim," he said. I'm almost 50 years old and I can honestly say that in all that time I have only met one other person as gracious, humble, and kind as Jim. He has gently reminded me of the person I want to be and will now try to be even harder. In my eyes the grass is not as green today and the sky is a paler blue, but in my heart I know that his passing is adding color to all of our lives, his next gift to us. Thank you, Jim, and I bless your radiant spirit. Lissa in Ashland, WI
I met Jim Kelsey at the NAAD Conference in Atlanta about 3 years ago. I was given the gift of working with him on the liturgy and music for the conference.
He carried his calling with such graceful joy in the service of our Lord that I was able to do the job that I had been given for the conference to the fullest of my abilities.
It is with deep sadness that I write, even as I am sure that the angels are rejoicing at his presence. His family will continue in my prayers and thoughts.
Heaven is brighter for his presence and this world bereft of a man whose welcoming spirit showed me Jesus Christ.
I am grateful to God that I knew him. May he go from grace to grace in the presence of our precious Lord.
When I called my parents about 3 years ago saying that I had come back to the church and had a lot of my questions answered they were thrilled. I started talking about Jim to my parents, they thought he was just a regular member of the church...and he was...They were APPALLED when I introduced them to him just referring to him as Jim. One of the greatest things that I knew was that there wasn't the political honor and made me feel so wonderful. Last year was the last time that I made it to a Dead Saints meeting, I was always happy when I was there because that gave me the "family" that I missed so much being 300 miles away from my own. As I've been telling people, Jim was one of the few "dad" figures that I had in my life, and was very glad to say that Jim had a HUGE impact on my life.
Now that I've rambled on...I will be there to Celebrate his life with everyone else that felt such the same HUGE impact that I did.
I first met Jim on a visit to the U.P. for a Ministry Development visitors weekend in the spring of 2002. As a young seminarian still very much trying to figure out who I was supposed to be as a priest in the church, Jim (and everyone else in DioNoMi) offered me a model of ministry based not on pretense and professionalism, but on authenticity and gentle encouragement of the good things the Spirit is already doing among us. In a process of formation that so easily takes one's eyes of the ball, Jim kept it very simple -- love God, love your family, love your friends, and love those you serve. Many prayers for Mary and the family and for those who work closely with Jim, especially Kevin.
I first met Jim on a chilly April Visitors Weekend in 1999 - his warm smile and firm handshake signaling an authenticity that was transparent from the very beginning.
Our conversation was very quickly intimate - that's Jim, I came to see - and he took me back to his office to show me a picture of his family. We were chatting about the upcoming consecration, and he told a very funny story about wanting to have nearly 30 bishops participate in the service. "815 told me I could only have five bishops", he said. "I asked them why the limit and they replied 'well, there's only room for five signatures on the certificate'!" And then he said the words I'll never forget: "Doesn't matter about the certificate anyway, it'll just go in a drawer somewhere. The only certificate I have on my wall is my baptismal certificate."
In that moment I grasped what Jim - and, I believe, the Church - was (and should be) all about. I had never put any certificates on my office wall, least of all ordination certificates. But the first thing I did on returning home was to dig out my baptismal certificate and have it framed with the most expensive frame I could find.
Somewhere on the back I wrote this note: "Thanks, Jim."
Sadness and joy are bound together for me now - he is gone. And yet he will continue to live in our memories. I will always remember him with that same easy grin and quick chuckle as on that April day now eight years ago.
And I have this vision of him reminding St. Peter not to get too carried away by the way some of the Church has come to view Peter, which is so much less important - Jim says to him - than the ministry that Peter's baptism authored!
Rest in peace and rise in glory you dear, dear man.
Nigel Taber-Hamilton St. Augustine's-in-the-woods Episcopal Church, Freeland WA
Jim was one of my dad's closest friends. It was always difficult for me to remember that he was "important." So many people in high positions in churches today make being a Christian so complicated, but Jim was a simple man with a wonderfully simple ministry: "Come, let us love one another." Jim preached His Word, but the message was much more eloquent in Jim's actions and life. His was a life filled with the grace of God, and that grace overflowed into the lives of all those of us lucky enough to be touched by him.
I had only met the Bishop once or twice but have many friends in Blois Blanc that love him so...please accept the prayers and sympathy offered here in London. Bishop Jim will be remembered at the altar at Canterbury Cathedral on Sunday. May he rest peacefully and rise gloriously.
I met Bp. Jim Kelsey several times in the context of AMEN meetings. I pray the Lord will raise up someone to continue his ministry of empowerment to and of the baptized. While at my college reunion this weekend, I will offer Mass on Sunday June 10 for Jim. Requiescat in pace. And may his family be comforted by the Divine Compassion! Fr. John Crean+ Diocese of Western Michigan
To Jim's family, Dave and I have much to thank Jim for, when we were visiting our famiy in Crystal Falls Dave had a heart attack and was sent to Marquette. Jim was notified we were at the hospital and he came to the hospital and prayed for Dave and me and stayed with us for support and comfort. He also sent the rector of St.Paul's to stay with use as well of which we were very thankful. Jim then arranged for me to stay in the Diocesan apartment while Dave was in the hospital after surgery. We could not thank Jim enough for his caring and prayers. Our prayers and thoughts are with his family. May God's loving grace be with Mary and the children now and forever. The Rev. Carol and David Spangenberg
Dawn said... I can't remember when I have been to deeply sadden. Jim was not just our Bishop he was a very close friend to every one not just myself. When St. James had serious problems he was there with what ever help he could give. When I was elected Sr. Warden he was never to busy to help me with a job I had no idea how to do. Working with him was wonderful. My fondest memories is singing duets with him at St. James. He did love to sing any chance he got. We will never understand why this happened to such a wonderful man but he would want us to carry out his work as best we can. My prayers are with his whole family. God has got one of the greatest and we have a hugh void to fill. He will never be forgotten.
To me, Jim Kelsey was the epitomy of a servant leader. My family lived in the UP for 18 years and attended Trinity in Houghton. In 1991, Trinity started a community outreach program, a playgroup for families with infants and toddlers. Over the years, with the whole-hearted support of the then Rector, Fr. Steven Powers, Bishops Tom Ray and Jim Kelsey this devloped into the Keweenaw Family Resource Center, a non-profit organization receiving grants and awards from many sources, including the parish, diocese, UTO and ERD. In 1995, KFRC was honored to be recognised as a Jubilee Center by the ECUSA. Recertification was received in 2004. The success and development of the KFRC were due in large part to the loving consistent support of these three men, as we tried to live out our baptismal covenant. The lives of many young, struggling families have been touched and supported by the KFRC as Jim Kelsey's life has touched theirs. On a more personal note, my family will be forever grateful and privileged to have been a part of the family of the Diocese of Northern Michigan. Our hearts go out to Mary, Nathan, Lydia and Amos in their tragic loss.
Margaret Sottile Director (retired) KFRC Bill, Caroline and Richard Sottile Former members, Trinity, Houghton
In 1981 my late husband, Michael and I were looking for a place to be married and a church home. We found that place in Holy Trinity, Swanton, Vermont and through a lively, enthusiastic priest named Jim Kelsey. Jim guided us through our marriage preparations, onto confirmation into the Episcopal Church and the baptism of our children. He later was a rock for me to lean on when Michael became ill and died. Jim became a counsel to me as I began my ordination journey and we maintained an email relationship, he in Northern Michigan, me in Maine.
When I heard of Jim's death, I took out a family Bible I have that I keep precious pieces of memories in. In the pages I found a letter Jim sent to Holy Trinity when he decided to accept the call to Oklahoma dated March 31, 1985. His words seem so prophetic now. I found comfort in Jim's words, I hope it does for all of us who mourn his death. Jim said,"It is only at moments such as these that one becomes fully aware of how richly God has blessed us with friends and family. How easily we take it all for granted until we are called to separate our selves and our daily routines from those we have come to cherish with a love which can only be discovered within the family of His body, the Church. You have been our brothers and sisters, our parents and our children during these past several years. It is impossible to say good-bye without opening ourselves to a whole range of feelings and deeply seated emotions, and yet, after sharing so much on so intimate a level, I pray that in the coming weeks, we may each discover the courage and strength needed to risk the pain, that we might have a chance to share the joy of celebrating and giving thanks to God for all we have meant and become to one another."
Jim embodied for me all that was good and true. He is a true example of what it is to be a person of God. Oh how I grieve for his family and for our Episcopal Church family. Jim's insight and vision and pastoral direction will be surely missed when our Church needs it so much.
The pain of loss is great, but the joy of having known Jim is greater. DeaconJane
An image that will always be dear to us is a picture taken on April 14, 2002 at the Celebration of New Ministry at Trinity, Houghton, in which Jim Kelsey, our then new Bishop, welcomed us to the Diocese of Northern Michigan and presented us to the people of Trinity as their new clergy family. Jim’s warm and welcoming spirit, reflected in his sparkling eyes and inviting smile, are captured in that picture. That same spirit of joy and welcome greeted and embraced us throughout our time in Northern Michigan and every time we have had the joy of seeing him and Mary since. On the day of the Celebration of New Ministry, Mary took a picture of a rainbow on their drive to Houghton. Remembering that UP rainbow gives us hope in the face of such profound loss.
Jim, you will be profoundly missed by the many, many lives you touched through your courageous, articulate, and joyous incarnation of God’s all embracing love. Pray for us that we, too, may each in our own way and time, incarnate that same all embracing love.
The Rev. Ted Durst and Mark Britt Chicago, Illinois
Many of us here in New Zealand have been - along with friends around the world - stunned to hear the terrible news of Jim's death. When I was in the Diocese of Christchurch, we had a very special relationship with the Diocese of Northern Michigan and I remember what a joy it was to be with Bishop David Coles at Christchurch Airport to welcome Jim and Mary finally amongst us - after so many of us had spent time in the UP learning great theology and ministry practice. He modelled mutuality, and it was so wonderful to see a mutual model of episcopacy being lived out. Jim Kelsey was a dear friend and a fine leader - along with being sheer good fun! My sympathy and love to Mary and Nathan and Lydia and Amos - and all Yooperpalians who have lost not only a bishop but also a fellow pilgrim and friend. Arohanui, Jenny Dawson
Jim Kelsey was a lot of things to a lot of people. I can honestly say that Jim to me was a mentor and a bit of a hero. Those who know me know I'm a funny person and like to keep the mood light with laughter. Jim from the very beginning helped me with my sense of timing and delivery. Not intentionally mind you, it was just from me watching him. He had this ability to draw people in. You talked to Jim for two minutes and suddenly you found yourself with another friend. Jim also gave me the impression that he saw the most of my potential and wanted to see me succeed. Some of my fondest memories are of him, Jamie Randall and me talking at Happening. Just the three of us just laughing and just filled with joy. Jim Kelsey is truly a man who will be missed but truly a man who will never be forgotten.
What a loss for the church! Jim's passionate commitment to baptismal ministry, and the way he lived that out, are a tremendous legacy for the church. I first met Jim in the early 1990s when he was a ministry developer and I was in Western Michigan. I learned a great deal from Jim when he (and others from Northern Michigan) worked with our diocesan leadership who were interested in total ministry.
Where do I begin to speak about Jim Kelsey... There are really no words to describe the emotion that we all feel when losing someone so great. I can not choose only one memory about Jim as my favorite, but I can say that almost of them happened at the Page Camp, summer after summer, making camp our "home away from home". It will never be the same without him, but it will forever have an even more sentimental feel next time I will step out of my car, walk up to the main house, and let all the old memories come rushing back to me. My thoughts and prayers are with Mary and the Kelsey family. Jim will be forever in our hearts.
I met Jim through our mutual association with NAAD. I found him to be a warm, caring and wonderful human being. The passion he had for his ministry was without comparison and I often looked forward to hearing him tell of his ministry, his diocese and his program. He spoke with pride of his children and wife. Though it has been some time since we last spoke in New Orleans, I have carried his message of baptismal life with me. My sympathies to his family and his diocese. This is a great loss to everyone. I will miss him and I am sure the Church will miss him, too.
When Mary & I first met Jim we found him to be a warm caring person.The same impression stayed with us after many meetings over the years. When he ordained both of us along with our Covenant group at Holy Trinity, the joy in his face just beamed. Jim loved Mutual Ministry and it was evident he loved us. He made many trips to visit us as he did his other parishes. His leadership skills were exceptional. And he displayed them on a national level. Mary & I watched his television appearances and came away feeling we had a great Bishop.When he visited us at our last MST meeting he gave me the impression of a man not only leading his diocese but having the capability of being the CEO of a large corporation. He understood people and complex issues. Yet we are blessed with his last visit to Holy Trinity after Service attending our Potluck Lunch and staying with his Mary to play Trivial Pursuit.The loving banter between he and his Mary left us with laughter and warm hearts. We will not forget you Jim! Dave & Mary Johnson
The whole church shares in the pain of Jim's family, friends and diocese! He was a good friend, a gifted counselor, and a wonderful partner in our Michigan ministries. He will be missed by all who work to affirm the ministries of all the bapized.
Since I grew up and spent the vast majority of my life in the Diocese of Northern Michigan, I am unbelievably proud to say that Jim was my bishop. I find it so deeply touching that people around the country know of him and send many good thoughts and prayers. I am grateful that my Diocese had Jim as a leader for so many years. I am also grateful for his presence in my life. Through his Dead Saints' program I was brought back into a church that I adore and brings so much meaning to my life. However, that program would not have worked if not for his wonderful, friendly, joyous, and loving spirit. We have all been truly blessed by his presence in this life and I'm sure his presence in the next one will be equally if not more wonderful. Rest in Peace Jim. My prayers are with you. My prayers are also with Mary, their children, and the Diocese of Northern Michigan.
Lucinda Feller Originally: Marquette, MI Presetnly: Opelika, AL
I met Bishop Kelsey at the NAAD Conference in Atlanta in 2005. I was immediately drawn to the fact that the was from my home state of Michigan and that he was so humble and accepting of all. This is a great loss to his family, friends, and the Diocese. Please accept my sympathy at this sad. May his soul rest in God's overwhelming peace.
I was fortunate to meet Jim just in the past few months. Jim modeled a thoughtful and reflective leadership, and his passion for sharing with everyone in ministry was inspiring to me. Our prayers continue for the family and for the diocese in the difficult days ahead.
Jim annointed my wife Cynthia and I at our baptism in 2003. What a powerfully intimate moment, when we felt the power of God through Jim's hands, his gentle voice, and loving spirit. The image of that direct link to God through Jim was burned onto our souls that night. We'll always remember him as one of the main influences of our Christian journey.
Josh and Cynthia Ivey Abitz Trinity, Mackinac Island
I will always remember Uncle Jim as the BIGGEST Yankee's fan. Every time I see a Yankee's game I will think of him. I will also remember the vacation to the lake with the whole family. He would buy my sister and I popcicles and all the food we wanted! At the lake he had his camera with him the entire time, so that on the last night the entire family would gather his cabin and watch the slide show of the whole vacation's pictures. I will never forget the little surprises, like haveing a mexican night at the lake, and haveing hats and music and everything. He was always so fun to be around. I love you and miss you Uncle Jim!
The news of Jim's death came to me today from a mutual friend. As teenagers in Vermont Jim, John and I were almost inseparable for almost 14 years. These were wonderful years and I have always cherished the memories. When Jim was ordained in Burlington at St. Pauls it was an honor to be there. Our contact became less frequent when Jim left Vermont but over the years we e-mailed, spoke and met on occasions when Jim was in Vermont. Jim worked hard at making the world a better place and we are all enriched by his deeds and his life. Jim will remain a blessing in the memories of all who knew and loved him.
I remember Jim from his time in Oklahoma with the "Green Country Cluster". Jim, along with Rayford Ray, served a group of Episcopal missions in Northeastern Oklahoma and were greatly missed when they moved on.
It is sad and ironic that they ministered to my family when our daughter Catharine was killed in an auto accident in 1989. Our prayers go out to Jim's family and all who knew and loved him.
My grandmother, who is 95, had a long conversation with "the Bishop" at the Ironwood Church the day of his passing. He asked her about her great granddaughter that he baptized 10 yrs ago. She told him all about her and really enjoy her time with him. I also met him a few years ago and thought he was wonderful. I feels sadness in my heart and wish his family the best. I was in an accident in which my husband died in 1999 and it is so devistating, the thought of others going through it saddens me.
Sam and I are still in shock about Jim's death. I met Jim in about 1986 when I attended a Roland Allen conference somewhere in the East. Was it Philadelphia? It's the first time I met Jim -- and the last time I saw Wes Frensdorff. Life is, indeed, not fair.
When the ministry developer position in Northern Michigan with Tom Ray came open I gave Jim a call about it. Sam and I are blessed that he got the job -- as you all are.
Mary, Lydia, Nathan and Amos Steve, Kathy and daughter
May the Lord hold you tight in his embrace.
The Rev. Carol Hosler. Formerly of St. Ignace, now retired in Arizona
As word of Jim's death reached me, I remembered my years of Senior High conference with him at Rock Point in Burlington. His energy seemed never-ending as he carried us all through long days of filming video projects on the stories of Jonah and the Book of Daniel. His boundless exuberence provided me with a new model for spiritual leadership. My father fondly remembers Jim and his brother as children running around Union Theological Seminary, and later as his student in CPE. In more recent years, my father followed Jim's work and had great adoration for the wisdom and leadership that he was contributing to the national voice of the Church. We all greatly miss him and remember the things that we learned in our time with him.
I just learned of Jim Kelsey's death and am deeply saddened by this great loss. I first met Jim while working on a research project with my colleague Lance Barker. Jim introduced us to the wonderful people of the Diocese of Northern Michigan and in the process we came to know and respect this gentle visionary and to call him friend. Later, I returned to Northern Michigan with a seminary class from United Seminary. I could not have asked for a better resource for my students than that which Jim and the folks of Northern Michigan had prepared. Since that trip Jim has occupied a place on my list of heroes of the faith. His leadership of that event, his theological acumen, and his obvious ability to translate vision into practice gave us a glimpse into his ministry among the churches of the UP. I give God thanks for his life.
I came for the weekend to N Michigan in 2001 from the Diocese of Worcester in the UK. In an idle moment this afternoon I decided to check out the website and was shocked to learn of Jim's untimely death. I remember his welcoming smile as he met me at the airport - the beginning of a wonderful weekend with Jim and his folks. A weekend of beginning to share a living vision of the Church. My heart goes out to Jim's wife and family and to the family of the diocese. May he rest in peace and rise in glory. Mel Smith, Diocese of Worcester UK
Thinking of all friends and family of dear Jim, as we move towards one year since his death. May the anniversary bring healing and peace, and strengthen his legacy amongst those who loved him. Jenny Dawson
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I will always remember the first time I met Jim and Mary. They had come to Marquette to interview for the job of Minestry Coordinator with Tom Ray. I had to be away from the diocese and arranged to meet in O'Hare Airport between flights. They were both walkin about 3 feet above the groung with excitement for the new job. Jim had great enthusiasm for a new position which would put to work all the theology he had developed about baptismal minestry. His life after that was never the same and neither has a lot of peoples'.
oh how we all will miss this warm, caring, loving man who touched so very many lives! an advocate for so many folks, a supporter of all our parishes, a cheerleader for all of our successes, a comforter when we bumbled and always living out Christ's vision for all of us. he was an wonderful example of a bishop, priest, family man, and friend. we all are going to be struggling due to his absence among us. God give him peace.
marsha kleber
trinity mackinac island
I am a member of Trinity Episcopal Church in San Francisco and have never visited your Diocese. However, I've been aware for some time of the integrity and special qualities of Bishop Kelsey and was greatly saddened last night to learn of his death yesterday. This is a tremendous loss for the Church and a very sad one for the people of Northern Michigan.
We will dedicate our Taize Meditation Service on Wednesday to his memory.
What a terrible loss for the whole church! Jim's reports and reflections on the actions of the General Conventions and meetings of the House of Bishops were the best available anywhere. He perceived the truth of situations and did not flinch from telling the truth. He would have preferred to stay with us to fight against prejudice and injustice in the church and in the world. Jim and Mary were unfailingly kind and generous to Karen and me. We had seen them only last July in Eagle Harbor when Jim came to make his visit to the St. Peter's folks. He preached a good homily. I was looking forward to the possibility that we would see him and Mary again at Eagle Harbor this year. There is a pall of sadness over everything today. Of course, we will find ways to affirm life and hope and eternal life. May Mary and their children find comfort. May all the people of Northern Michigan find comfort and strength to continue. May Jim rest in peace! Steven Powers
I told my husband that Jim was a bishop who worked like a deacon every day of his life. Servanthood could have been his middle name. We first met Jim in 1997 when I returned to Ironwood for my 30th H.S. reunion. He was the celebrant that Sunday at Transfiguration (where my father was rector 1958-1965). We instantly connected. I was studying for the diaconate and interested in his mutual ministry work. I flew up for his consecration; what a Spirit-filled event! I last saw Jim at the national deacon's meeting (NAAD) in Winter Park, FL in 2001, but we kept in touch. NAAD has been so blessed to have him on the Board. He has been the best supporter/advocate for deacons. Oh, how I enjoy my Hiawathaland when it comes in the mail. My love and prayers go out to his dear family and to my "home diocese".
Mary Kilbourn-Huey
Diocese of Lexington (KY)
Jim always found the best in all of us. He led by such integrity and compassion for all of God's creations. He will be greatly missed by my family. When mother was ill and could not attend Church that day Jim and Mary drove over to our home to see her. I knew he had another appointment elsewhere but he took an hour to visit with mom and pray for her during illness. His commitment to be a catalyst of God's love was always in the on position. Jim leaves a legacy of humor, that grin, his truthful wisdom, his insightfullness, his love of the New York Yankees, and his down to earth approach. He led his life expressing the love of Christ and the wisdom of the Creator. I will miss you my friend, brother, and mentor.
Naturally as everyone else I was shocked and deeply saddened with the untimely passing of Jim Kelsey.
Jim was by far one of the most humble down to earth human beings that I've had the honor of knowing and anyone who came in contact with him and got to know Jim knew he wore his heart on his sleeve. He also had a warm smile that was infectious and once you were in a room with him it was amazing how he could leave an impact on a person after only talking to him for a few minutes.
A few years back I had the oppurtunity to work with Jim and Mary and a whole bunch of amazing people up at the Youth Summer Camp at Page Conference Center and those two summers turned out to be some of the best experiences of my life. I was blown away by Jim's passion to share God's love and how he just conveyed a person who was a great role model for both campers and the staff he worked with. I admired his uncanny ability for photography and how he could catch people in a photograph without them even knowing.
I saw Jim a few weeks back at his annual visit with St. John's in Iron River and despite a little mix up in times (Iron River being in the central time zone) he arrived and spent time after service with the congregation... His demeanor was still genuine just as I have always remembered him... I made sure to catch him before he left and gave him a hug and we said our goodbyes...
His presence will always be a huge influence on my life as he truly touched so many different people and was a inspiration to all.
Thank you Jim for your constant support and inspiration... I will always cherish your friendship and guidance and will miss your insight and presence as it was definitely powerful beyond mere words.
My thoughts and prayers are with Mary and the rest of his family. He will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
All the best,
Sincerely,
Jere Fritsche Jr.
Check out Remembering Bishop Jim Kelsey on Episcopal Cafe for many more tributes. I hope those of us who loved him can carry on his dream of a church where all are valued and honored.
Jim Kelsey was one of those rare people who live to see their dreams become incarnate in the world. He learned his strong doctrines in the process of living them, in Vermont villages and struggling U.P. communities where winters are hard and Episcopalians few and far between. He was a "process guy" par excellence, yet with a pastoral heart. The vision of baptismal ministry, begun by Bishop Tom Ray and expanded greatly by Jim, is changing the Episcopal Church from the inside out. Indeed, while great controversies preoccupy the councils of the mighty in the church, a subversive revival is taking place in small communities all over the Anglican world, and the Diocese of Northern Michigan has become a center of pilgrimage for it, with Jim presiding over (he probably would object to the word "over") it all as gentle shepherd and stubborn prophet, as occasion dictated.
He does so now from another vantage-point, having crossed over a span far wider than the Straits of Macinac. As for being Bishop of Northern Michigan, it could be said that "for this he was born, and for this he came into the world."
His legacy will be a church that is more alive, more accessible, more articulate, and more fun. "All of us go down to the dust; yet even at the grave we make our song for Jim: Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia."
My uncle Jim was the most inspirational, humble, and kind man I've ever known. This is not an exaggeration. His generosity was unlike anything I've ever seen. From before I was even born, Jim was a tremendous influence in my life. He and my aunt Mary extended their home to my mother during her pregnancy. Uncle Jim was there when I was born, he baptized me, and he officiated at my wedding. He was so selfless; anyone who was around him knew this immediately. Jim was a man who just "got it". Life made more sense after spending time with my uncle Jim. There was something about his smile and warm hugs that made you feel better about the world even when it seemed to be falling apart. His love for my aunt Mary and their kids has always been so encompassing and pure, you couldn't help but be envious. I can only hope to emulate that same relationship with my husband and son. What will our family do without our amazing compass? My love is with my beautiful aunt Mary and cousins Nathan, Lydia and Amos. I love you guys so much.
Jim was a great leader he lead by example. He was not afraid to get his hands dirty. Luann and I will remember him best for giving us permission to get married in the church. This was one of the first things he did as the Bishop here in Northern Michigan. We will miss him greatly, but he will be in our hearts forever.
I am grieving the loss of Jim, an amazing and passionate man. His love for God, worship, and people have greatly impacted my Christian life. I first met him at my first Happening retreat in September of 1990. Fr. Jim actually heard my first confession, right after I accepted Christ as my personal Lord and Savior. I was so afraid...and ashamed. When it was over I wept. Then with a hug and his amazing smile I saw and experienced in Fr. Jim the love, grace and forgiveness that our Lord Jesus Christ extends to those that confess and receive.
I mourn the loss of Bishop Jim. What a man, what a life... I will be praying for you Mary and family. He has touched so many lives in such a short time. Truly a man of God. With much love and sadness.
Dears Brothers and Sisters
Precious in the sight of the LORD
is the death of his saints (Psalm 116:15)
Receive from us the deepest feeling of solidarity in face of the Bishop Kelsey’s death.
May God receive his soul with merciful will.
His death is a great loss for all of us that are concerned with a Church really compromised in serve the world.
May his soul rest in peace!
The Revd. Canon Francisco de Assis da Silva
Provincial Secretary
Episcopal Anglican Church of Brazil
fassis@ieab.org.br
Jim asked if I'd be interested in cooking at Page Center for Camp New Day UP when it started up at Page Center in 2002. and then I went on to cook for Bible camp. It was an awesome thing to watch his interaction with the children and young people. He was a shining example of God's love, caring, sharing and a good life! He and Mary had something very special going for them and it came shining through to all who came in contact with them.
As I prayed to God with a heavy heart today, I tried to be positive, but it's hard. HE must have felt He needed Jim home, more than we needed him here on earth, but I thanked Him for the gift of Jim in our lives. His compassionate care and loving heart has touched so many of us. He will be greatly missed.
Mary, may God keep you and yours in His loving, healing care.
Chris Niles
St. Paul's
Marquette
I weep. I am blessed to have known him. Thank you, God, for sharing Jim Kelsey with us.
Barbara Susan
Marquette
It seems as though any words I post will fall woefully short of the impact Jim made on my life. All I can say is that I will miss his easy laughter in the good times and his compassion when life has taken some unexpected turns. My prayers go out to his family and all those he touched over the years.
What a tragic end to such a wonderful life. Bishop Jim was SO easy to be around and very supportive of my diaconal ministrys. He attended one of our healing/HE from res'vd sacrament services at a local head trauma clinic and was very moved and encourging.
He typed his sermons in short and widely spaced lines of thought that I have copied. I'll have not, nor will I ever, give a sermon that I won't remember my freind, Bishop Jim.
Mary, Nathon, Lydia, Amos, Katie, Gail, Eddie, John,
John and Shirley, you are in Fran's and my prayers. I am so sorry.
Deacon Bill Magie, St Annes' Ankeny, Iowa
I met Jim in 1990. I was taking a sabbatical from Enland studying Every Member Ministry and Small Church Leadership. I started in Oregon but it was in Marquette that I found what I was looking for. Jim, Mary and Tom Ray offered generous hospitality. Jim's work has had a transforming effect on my theology and ministry for which I will always be grateful. Now back in Oregon, I am trying to live and work it out. I was talking about his work at a conference only on Saturday.
With prayers for Mary and family.
We have many memories of Bishop Jim and Mary from our bi-ennial trips to The Grand Hotel for the A.M.E.N. Clergy Conference of all the Michigan clergy. He always seemed to be having more fun than anyone. And his warm, beaming smile was so contagious. We were recipients of his warm hospitality two years ago when, as a couple of "clergy-trolls" were invited to the Diocese of Northern Michigan's dinner table. It may have been because the 'troll-wife' was born in Hancock and has a family farm in Toivola, or it may have been because Jim was just so welcoming of everyone. We were made to feel totally at home. We will miss his joviality and extravagant hospitality -- our prayers will be for all you, especially Mary and the children, who knew him and loved him best. God's peace all over you all.
Rev.Dr. Ray and Linda Babin
Romeo, Michigan
Diocese of Michigan
There is such a rush of memories for me -- and I was just a distant friend. I counted him as a friend, and that is what Jim made everyone feel. I remember him leading a small group in simple a capella singing the first time I met him. No fanfare, all so traditional and well-known. But he was able to catch us up in the Spirit and make us feel like "anyone can do it." There was a phrase he shared with me in his office once, describing himself, he said he was a kind of "high church Quaker." I have used that phrase both publicly and in my own reflections to help understand myself. Jim, I miss you.
A mutual close friend called me early (here in Washington State) on Sunday afternoon and told me of Jim's death. My husband, Wayne, and I sat in shock and tears for a time, after which I wrote the following note to the House of Bishops/Deputies e-mail list. I've been asked to share it here.
It was my great honor to "come in second" when Jim was elected (on the first ballot) Bishop of the Diocese of Northern Michigan.
Jim and I had so many friends in common in the total ministry/mutual ministry church, but had never met, and when we met in person in one of the earlier interview sessions in Marquette, we ran into each other's arms and hugged!
Jim and I talked a lot about how easy it is to make an idol of the ministry style which engaged us both so powerfully, the apostolic model that identified local gifts for ministry, trained people and developed those gifts, and then watched over the ministering communities and helped them develop expertise in the areas of ministry to which God was calling them. I was (and am) passionate about being "Matthew 25" Christians in 1998, particularly in the areas of jail/prison and hospital visiting by specifically trained lay ministers. Jim called me after he had been bishop for about a year and told me that I had lit a fire under the UP and that they were working with the national officer for prison ministry in the DoNM! I was so thrilled.
Jim had just been awarded a D.D. honoris causa from EDS for his work in total baptismal ministry, upon which occasion Dr. Fredrica Harris Thompsett commended him for his gifts of hospitality and prophetic ministry in the area of baptismal ministry. She also said: "You not only speak of but you practice 'shared Episcopacy."...We are proud too that you have persistently stood in genuine friendship with lesbian and gay colleagues, worked energetically for ecological justice in territory where natural gifts have mostly been ‘mined away,’ strategically spoken truth to power in recent Bishops’ meetings, and labored as a small diocese in this large land to advance other paths where justice and mercy meet." (Thank you, Jane Cisluycis.)
Jim showed up at the Integrity Eucharist in 2000 at GC-Denver in his customary brown plaid shirt, and I told him, "I know you detest clericalism, but this is the one occasion when you HAVE to wear your purple--so people can identify you as a bishop at this particular service." He wore his purple shirt in Minneapolis at the Integrity Eucharist!
In his last diocesan convention address, Jim talked about Abp. Desmond Tutu's 2005 book, God Has A Dream. He talked about needing to be drawn out of the daily preoccupations of life and into God's dream for the Diocese of NM, for the Church and for the world. He said, "One of my favorite Collects in the Book of Common Prayer is...'Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to that which shall endure...'
"This is something I have found to be true without exception: that when we, any of us, focus on things in our lives that are passing away, we get scared, we get anxious, we get depressed, we lose hope; and when we focus on things that are being birthed and are coming newly into creation, we get excited, we get imaginative, we get optimistic, we feel drawn closer to one another, we feel as if we have meaning and purpose in this life, and we have joy."
"...I really mean to say that our best days do lie ahead. And that what is asked of us is that we give ourselves to it. That we rededicate ourselves to the Dream and to the Journey...It’s about keeping our focus upon God’s Dream. And the wonders and miracles.
"My friends, you know, we are given change as an ingredient in life. We can be frightened and anxious and resistant to it or we can embrace it as a tool to transform us...Do you see? ...that the Dream, God’s Dream, is something which reaches beyond us; beyond the horizon of our own perspective, beyond the outer limits of our sight, beyond what we can imagine possible as resulting from so small and meager a community as is ours.
"Listen again to Desmond Tutu’s words, I ask you. Listen with me, and let us see how we might discover again something about our vocation:
'If you were in heaven now you would notice the tears in God’s eyes. The tears streaming down God’s face as God looked on us and saw the awful things that we, God’s children, are doing to each other. God cries and cries. And then you might see the smile that was breaking over God’s face like sunshine through the rain, almost like a rainbow. You would see God smiling because God was looking on you and noting how deeply concerned you are. And the smile might break out into a laugh as God said, “You have vindicated Me. I had been asking Myself, “Whatever got into Me to create that lot?” And when I see you, yes, you,” God says, “you are beginning to wipe the tears from My eyes because you care. Because you care and you have come to learn that you are not your brother’s or sister’s keeper. You are your brother’s brother and your sister’s sister.” And God says, “I have no one except you. Thank you for vindicating Me.”
All over this magnificent world God calls us to extend God’s Realm of shalom – peace and wholeness – of justice, of goodness, of compassion, of caring, of sharing, of laughter, of joy, of reconciliation. God is transfiguring the world right this very moment through us because God believes in us and because God loves us. What can separate us from the love of God? Nothing. Absolutely nothing.
And as we share God’s love with our brothers and sisters, God’s other children, there is no tyrant who can resist us, no oppression that cannot be ended, no hunger that cannot be fed, no wound that cannot be healed, no hatred that cannot be turned to love, no dream that cannot be fulfilled. (pp.127-128)"'
May ++Desmond's words and +Jim's reach us and comfort us in this time of profound loss. May our prayers surround Mary and the kids. May Jim's soul, and the souls of all the departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
I'm praying for all of you Yooperpalians,
Kathy
Katherine Merrell Glenn+
Diocese of Olympia, Retired
"The one who loves another has fulfilled the law." -Romans 13:8
I have wandered around in dazed disbelief since receiving this news Sunday night. Of all the wonderful people I dealt with while at the Church Pension Fund, Jim was one of the very best. The many comments about his authenticity and sense of servant leadership have captured him perfectly.
Our Church is greatly diminished having lost his leadership and potential. Mary and her family have sustained an incalculable loss having had his physical presence and deep love taken from them. Alan Blanchard
Jim Kelsey was one of the gentlest and most caring people I have ever met. His wisodom was so deep. He would celebrate the time we knew him. It is so hard to celebrate through the shock and grief. We all loved him and will miss him
What an incredible man Jim Kelsey was. His death will and has caused such a big hole in all of our lives.
I remember attending a meeting once in Pickford, and had taken my son with me, while Jim was with us inside conducting the meeting, Mary waited outside with my son. During this time Mary and Matthew became great buddies and had shared plans to get together in Marquette during hockey season. This is just an example of what incredible people Jim & Mary were and are....
My heart and prayers go out to Mary and their three children.
I know that Jim rests in his rightfull place amongst the Angels and Saints. But he will be missed here on earth.
Our family only recently came to know Jim and Mary, following our recent move from Brazil. Jim's profound acceptance and understanding of the moments in which we live and the circumstances under which we come to God offered a grace to his presence which gave us great comfort.
Our youngest, Macon said it best, when at winter camp he said he didn't want to go home because he would miss his "new friend" (Jim) and later when I told him of his passing and he punched a nearby towel and said, "I'm really going to miss that guy, I really liked him!" God bless you Jim, may you continue to do God's bidding and God bless you Mary and your children as you move through this moment. We pray for your comfort and healing.
Shelley, Travis and Macon,
St. James, Sault Sainte Marie
My heart goes out to you Mary and all Jims family..Such a sad and tragic loss for you especilally and for all of us worldwide who have been touched by Jims love and compassion. Jim had an amazing ability to welcome and sincerely care about EVERYONE he met from world leaders to EVERY smalltown folk..I will miss his smile, his laughter and his joyful presence. Every word I can think of that describes Jesus describes Jim..Wonderful Counselor, Rock, Advocate, Mediator, Light, Prince of Peace Son of God and of course our GOOD SHEPHERD. We his sheep will Greatly miss his leadership..I can feel now the DEEP sense of loss the Apsotles must have felt when Jesus died and when he asending to Heaven.Leaving them to continue sharing the Gospel without his physical prsence....Jim left us with his Wonderful Spirit just as Jesus left us with the Holy Spirit and through the indwelling of both we shall continue on in Gods work..Jims light will forever shine in our hearts and lives..God has welcome HIS BEST home..Mary and family..May the love and prayers of all of us who share in your GREAT grief help you through this MOST difficult time.. In Christs Love and Sympathy Candy Lauk..Iron Mountain, MI
Jim and I went to Ithaca College together; he was one year behind me. Together we worshipped with and did ministry with the United Christian Fellowship(the Protestant Community on campus). We were both profoundly influenced by our two chaplains; the Rev. George Clarkson (Protestant chaplain) and the Rev. Ted Jones (Episcopal Chaplain)
Jim and I both did our field work in the same church - St. Luke's, Montclair, NJ - only 18 years apart!
Jim and I have seen each other a number of times since I moved to Ohio and it has been wonderful to catch up with each other.
Two years ago Jim and Ted and I were in Ithaca where Jim was giving the inaugural lecture in the George Clarkson Lecture series, named in honor of our former chaplian. The title of his talk was "Widening the tent" (I believe) and it was a wonderful reflection on God's love for all of us. That occasion was also the first time in 30 years that Jim and Ted and I had been together, and we talked and talked and talked - as friends and colleagues, not as teacher (Ted) and students (Jim and me). The last time I saw Jim was last summer in Columbus at General Convention. But we exchanged e-mails a couple of weeks ago, and he said he was going to call me this week.
May God' peace be with Jim's family and with all of you in the U.P.
The Rev. Bruce Smith
Columbus. OH
My heart is aching at the loss of our beloved friend Jim. Jim inspired and touched my life many years ago. I participated in many church camps and Happenings of which Jim also attended. In particular I remember Happening #21 in September of 1999. I was the rector (leader) of the weekend. I was also pregnant, 18 and unwed. To most people this would be frowned upon. Most people would not have approved of me leading other teens to Christ given my situation, but Jim encouraged me and gave me strength throughout the entire weekend that same courage led to inner strength throughout the rest of my life thus far. Because of this I named my daughter Kelsey after him. I was so afraid to be unaccepted in the church but Jim accepted everyone! You could meet him for 5 minutes and he was a friend for life! I truly believe that Jim is not done performing miracles and inspiring people. His ministry to the entire world is not over! He will be remember as Saint James Kelsey in my heart forever. Love and prayers to everyone.
I only knew Jim Kelsey for two weeks, first during a mission trip to the UP, and then during our general chapter where he served as Bishop Protector for our sisters in the Community of St. Francis. In that short time, though, I came to love and admire him. He was sweet, generous, and remarkably ego-free, someone far from the stereotypical Episcopal bishop. I admired his commitment to the people of the upper peninsula and his deep knowledge of the congregations and people with whom he served. I pray that the diocese will raise up someone as devoted to mutual ministry and to a fully inclusive church as Jim was. I'll miss the chance to know him better and to share the work in which he so obviously rejoiced. The people of the diocese are in my prayers, especially Mary and their children.
Jim, may Christ welcome you into the light and joy of his reign, and may you rest in peace and rise in glory!
I am deeply saddened and shocked to hear of the tragic death of Jim Kelsey. I've known Jim since he was five years old as a kid on the GTS close when I was student and when I taught him there as a student. He is surely one of the finest men I've known and I have always appreciated that the Kelsey twins were very special. We have lost a very fine leader and the church will miss his wisdom, devotion and prophetic voice. I will write Mary as soon as I can. Please know my prayers will be with the diocese and Mary, Stephen, and his sisters and children at the altar at Old St. Andrew's Church, Charleston tomorrow. May his soul rest in peace and may light perpetual shine on him. Faithfully, John+
(The Rev'd. John Romig Johnson, Ph.D.)
I am deeply saddened and shocked to hear of the tragic death of Jim Kelsey. I've known Jim since he was five years old as a kid on the GTS close when I was student and when I taught him there as a student. He is surely one of the finest men I've known and I have always appreciated that the Kelsey twins were very special. We have lost a very fine leader and the church will miss his wisdom, devotion and prophetic voice. I will write Mary as soon as I can. Please know my prayers will be with the diocese and Mary, Stephen, and his sisters and children at the altar at Old St. Andrew's Church, Charleston tomorrow. May his soul rest in peace and may light perpetual shine on him. Faithfully, John+
(The Rev'd. John Romig Johnson, Ph.D.)
I only met Jim a short while ago, but for the last two days I cannot stop thinking of him. He made such a memorable impression on me in the few interactions we had about his Earth Keeper work. Jim radiates kindness, fairness, and an open heart. I tried to call him "Bishop Kelsey" but he would have none of that. "Please call me Jim," he said.
I'm almost 50 years old and I can honestly say that in all that time I have only met one other person as gracious, humble, and kind as Jim. He has gently reminded me of the person I want to be and will now try to be even harder.
In my eyes the grass is not as green today and the sky is a paler blue, but in my heart I know that his passing is adding color to all of our lives, his next gift to us. Thank you, Jim, and I bless your radiant spirit.
Lissa in Ashland, WI
I only met Jim a short while ago, but for the last two days I cannot stop thinking of him. He made such a memorable impression on me in the few interactions we had about his Earth Keeper work. Jim radiates kindness, fairness, and an open heart. I tried to call him "Bishop Kelsey" but he would have none of that. "Please call me Jim," he said.
I'm almost 50 years old and I can honestly say that in all that time I have only met one other person as gracious, humble, and kind as Jim. He has gently reminded me of the person I want to be and will now try to be even harder.
In my eyes the grass is not as green today and the sky is a paler blue, but in my heart I know that his passing is adding color to all of our lives, his next gift to us. Thank you, Jim, and I bless your radiant spirit.
Lissa in Ashland, WI
I met Jim Kelsey at the NAAD Conference in Atlanta about 3 years ago. I was given the gift of working with him on the liturgy and music for the conference.
He carried his calling with such graceful joy in the service of our Lord that I was able to do the job that I had been given for the conference to the fullest of my abilities.
It is with deep sadness that I write, even as I am sure that the angels are rejoicing at his presence. His family will continue in my prayers and thoughts.
Heaven is brighter for his presence and this world bereft of a man whose welcoming spirit showed me Jesus Christ.
I am grateful to God that I knew him. May he go from grace to grace in the presence of our precious Lord.
When I called my parents about 3 years ago saying that I had come back to the church and had a lot of my questions answered they were thrilled. I started talking about Jim to my parents, they thought he was just a regular member of the church...and he was...They were APPALLED when I introduced them to him just referring to him as Jim. One of the greatest things that I knew was that there wasn't the political honor and made me feel so wonderful. Last year was the last time that I made it to a Dead Saints meeting, I was always happy when I was there because that gave me the "family" that I missed so much being 300 miles away from my own. As I've been telling people, Jim was one of the few "dad" figures that I had in my life, and was very glad to say that Jim had a HUGE impact on my life.
Now that I've rambled on...I will be there to Celebrate his life with everyone else that felt such the same HUGE impact that I did.
I first met Jim on a visit to the U.P. for a Ministry Development visitors weekend in the spring of 2002. As a young seminarian still very much trying to figure out who I was supposed to be as a priest in the church, Jim (and everyone else in DioNoMi) offered me a model of ministry based not on pretense and professionalism, but on authenticity and gentle encouragement of the good things the Spirit is already doing among us. In a process of formation that so easily takes one's eyes of the ball, Jim kept it very simple -- love God, love your family, love your friends, and love those you serve. Many prayers for Mary and the family and for those who work closely with Jim, especially Kevin.
I first met Jim on a chilly April Visitors Weekend in 1999 - his warm smile and firm handshake signaling an authenticity that was transparent from the very beginning.
Our conversation was very quickly intimate - that's Jim, I came to see - and he took me back to his office to show me a picture of his family. We were chatting about the upcoming consecration, and he told a very funny story about wanting to have nearly 30 bishops participate in the service. "815 told me I could only have five bishops", he said. "I asked them why the limit and they replied 'well, there's only room for five signatures on the certificate'!" And then he said the words I'll never forget: "Doesn't matter about the certificate anyway, it'll just go in a drawer somewhere. The only certificate I have on my wall is my baptismal certificate."
In that moment I grasped what Jim - and, I believe, the Church - was (and should be) all about. I had never put any certificates on my office wall, least of all ordination certificates. But the first thing I did on returning home was to dig out my baptismal certificate and have it framed with the most expensive frame I could find.
Somewhere on the back I wrote this note: "Thanks, Jim."
Sadness and joy are bound together for me now - he is gone. And yet he will continue to live in our memories. I will always remember him with that same easy grin and quick chuckle as on that April day now eight years ago.
And I have this vision of him reminding St. Peter not to get too carried away by the way some of the Church has come to view Peter, which is so much less important - Jim says to him - than the ministry that Peter's baptism authored!
Rest in peace and rise in glory you dear, dear man.
Nigel Taber-Hamilton
St. Augustine's-in-the-woods Episcopal Church, Freeland WA
www.staugustinesepiscopalchurch.org
Jim was one of my dad's closest friends. It was always difficult for me to remember that he was "important." So many people in high positions in churches today make being a Christian so complicated, but Jim was a simple man with a wonderfully simple ministry: "Come, let us love one another." Jim preached His Word, but the message was much more eloquent in Jim's actions and life. His was a life filled with the grace of God, and that grace overflowed into the lives of all those of us lucky enough to be touched by him.
I had only met the Bishop once or twice but have many friends in Blois Blanc that love him so...please accept the prayers and sympathy offered here in London. Bishop Jim will be remembered at the altar at Canterbury Cathedral on Sunday. May he rest peacefully and rise gloriously.
Canon Dr Jim Rosenthal
London
The Earth Keeper Initiative is indebted to Bishop Kelsey has he was our biggest supporter.
Please check out these links:
Link to written Earth Keeper tribute on this website:
http://www.cedartreeinstitute.com/
Written tribute/photos:
http://www.lakesuperiorinterfaith.com/bishopkelsey.html
Click on the following link to watch a ten-minute video tribute to Episcopal Bishop James Kelsey.
Earth Keeper TV:
Bishop Kelsey Tribute:
http://blip.tv/file/253821/
All Earth Keeper T.V. videos:
http://earthkeepers.blip.tv/
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Bishop Kelsey's family asks that all memorials go to The Page Center in Little Lake (Marquette County).
http://www.pagecenter.org
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I met Bp. Jim Kelsey several times in the context of AMEN meetings. I pray the Lord will raise up someone to continue his ministry of empowerment to and of the baptized.
While at my college reunion this weekend, I will offer Mass on Sunday June 10 for Jim. Requiescat in pace. And may his family be comforted by the Divine Compassion!
Fr. John Crean+
Diocese of Western Michigan
To Jim's family,
Dave and I have much to thank Jim for, when we were visiting our famiy in Crystal Falls Dave had a heart attack and was sent to Marquette. Jim was notified we were at the hospital and he came to the hospital and prayed for Dave and me and stayed with us for support and comfort. He also sent the rector of St.Paul's to stay with use as well of which we were very thankful. Jim then arranged for me to stay in the Diocesan apartment while Dave was in the hospital after surgery. We could not thank Jim enough for his caring and prayers. Our prayers and thoughts are with his family. May God's loving grace be with Mary and the children now and forever.
The Rev. Carol and David Spangenberg
Dawn said...
I can't remember when I have been to deeply sadden. Jim was not just our Bishop he was a very close friend to every one not just myself. When St. James had serious problems he was there with what ever help he could give. When I was elected Sr. Warden he was never to busy to help me with a job I had no idea how to do. Working with him was wonderful. My fondest memories is singing duets with him at St. James. He did love to sing any chance he got. We will never understand why this happened to such a wonderful man but he would want us to carry out his work as best we can. My prayers are with his whole family. God has got one of the greatest and we have a hugh void to fill. He will never be forgotten.
To me, Jim Kelsey was the epitomy of a servant leader. My family lived in the UP for 18 years and attended Trinity in Houghton. In 1991, Trinity started a community outreach program, a playgroup for families with infants and toddlers. Over the years, with the whole-hearted support of the then Rector, Fr. Steven Powers, Bishops Tom Ray and Jim Kelsey this devloped into the Keweenaw Family Resource Center, a non-profit organization receiving grants and awards from many sources, including the parish, diocese, UTO and ERD. In 1995, KFRC was honored to be recognised as a Jubilee Center by the ECUSA. Recertification was received in 2004. The success and development of the KFRC were due in large part to the loving consistent support of these three men, as we tried to live out our baptismal covenant. The lives of many young, struggling families have been touched and supported by the KFRC as Jim Kelsey's life has touched theirs. On a more personal note, my family will be forever grateful and privileged to have been a part of the family of the Diocese of Northern Michigan.
Our hearts go out to Mary, Nathan, Lydia and Amos in their tragic loss.
Margaret Sottile
Director (retired) KFRC
Bill, Caroline and Richard Sottile
Former members, Trinity, Houghton
In 1981 my late husband, Michael and I were looking for a place to be married and a church home. We found that place in Holy Trinity, Swanton, Vermont and through a lively, enthusiastic priest named Jim Kelsey. Jim guided us through our marriage preparations, onto confirmation into the Episcopal Church and the baptism of our children. He later was a rock for me to lean on when Michael became ill and died. Jim became a counsel to me as I began my ordination journey and we maintained an email relationship, he in Northern Michigan, me in Maine.
When I heard of Jim's death, I took out a family Bible I have that I keep precious pieces of memories in. In the pages I found a letter Jim sent to Holy Trinity when he decided to accept the call to Oklahoma dated March 31, 1985. His words seem so prophetic now. I found comfort in Jim's words, I hope it does for all of us who mourn his death. Jim said,"It is only at moments such as these that one becomes fully aware of how richly God has blessed us with friends and family. How easily we take it all for granted until we are called to separate our selves and our daily routines from those we have come to cherish with a love which can only be discovered within the family of His body, the Church. You have been our brothers and sisters, our parents and our children during these past several years. It is impossible to say good-bye without opening ourselves to a whole range of feelings and deeply seated emotions, and yet, after sharing so much on so intimate a level, I pray that in the coming weeks, we may each discover the courage and strength needed to risk the pain, that we might have a chance to share the joy of celebrating and giving thanks to God for all we have meant and become to one another."
Jim embodied for me all that was good and true. He is a true example of what it is to be a person of God. Oh how I grieve for his family and for our Episcopal Church family. Jim's insight and vision and pastoral direction will be surely missed when our Church needs it so much.
The pain of loss is great, but the joy of having known Jim is greater.
DeaconJane
An image that will always be dear to us is a picture taken on April 14, 2002 at the Celebration of New Ministry at Trinity, Houghton, in which Jim Kelsey, our then new Bishop, welcomed us to the Diocese of Northern Michigan and presented us to the people of Trinity as their new clergy family. Jim’s warm and welcoming spirit, reflected in his sparkling eyes and inviting smile, are captured in that picture. That same spirit of joy and welcome greeted and embraced us throughout our time in Northern Michigan and every time we have had the joy of seeing him and Mary since. On the day of the Celebration of New Ministry, Mary took a picture of a rainbow on their drive to Houghton. Remembering that UP rainbow gives us hope in the face of such profound loss.
Jim, you will be profoundly missed by the many, many lives you touched through your courageous, articulate, and joyous incarnation of God’s all embracing love. Pray for us that we, too, may each in our own way and time, incarnate that same all embracing love.
The Rev. Ted Durst and Mark Britt
Chicago, Illinois
Many of us here in New Zealand have been - along with friends around the world - stunned to hear the terrible news of Jim's death. When I was in the Diocese of Christchurch, we had a very special relationship with the Diocese of Northern Michigan and I remember what a joy it was to be with Bishop David Coles at Christchurch Airport to welcome Jim and Mary finally amongst us - after so many of us had spent time in the UP learning great theology and ministry practice. He modelled mutuality, and it was so wonderful to see a mutual model of episcopacy being lived out. Jim Kelsey was a dear friend and a fine leader - along with being sheer good fun! My sympathy and love to Mary and Nathan and Lydia and Amos - and all Yooperpalians who have lost not only a bishop but also a fellow pilgrim and friend.
Arohanui,
Jenny Dawson
Jim Kelsey was a lot of things to a lot of people. I can honestly say that Jim to me was a mentor and a bit of a hero. Those who know me know I'm a funny person and like to keep the mood light with laughter. Jim from the very beginning helped me with my sense of timing and delivery. Not intentionally mind you, it was just from me watching him. He had this ability to draw people in. You talked to Jim for two minutes and suddenly you found yourself with another friend. Jim also gave me the impression that he saw the most of my potential and wanted to see me succeed. Some of my fondest memories are of him, Jamie Randall and me talking at Happening. Just the three of us just laughing and just filled with joy. Jim Kelsey is truly a man who will be missed but truly a man who will never be forgotten.
Nate Starr (Schaaf)
What a loss for the church! Jim's passionate commitment to baptismal ministry, and the way he lived that out, are a tremendous legacy for the church. I first met Jim in the early 1990s when he was a ministry developer and I was in Western Michigan. I learned a great deal from Jim when he (and others from Northern Michigan) worked with our diocesan leadership who were interested in total ministry.
Where do I begin to speak about Jim Kelsey... There are really no words to describe the emotion that we all feel when losing someone so great. I can not choose only one memory about Jim as my favorite, but I can say that almost of them happened at the Page Camp, summer after summer, making camp our "home away from home". It will never be the same without him, but it will forever have an even more sentimental feel next time I will step out of my car, walk up to the main house, and let all the old memories come rushing back to me. My thoughts and prayers are with Mary and the Kelsey family. Jim will be forever in our hearts.
I met Jim through our mutual association with NAAD. I found him to be a warm, caring and wonderful human being. The passion he had for his ministry was without comparison and I often looked forward to hearing him tell of his ministry, his diocese and his program. He spoke with pride of his children and wife. Though it has been some time since we last spoke in New Orleans, I have carried his message of baptismal life with me. My sympathies to his family and his diocese. This is a great loss to everyone. I will miss him and I am sure the Church will miss him, too.
When Mary & I first met Jim we found him to be a warm caring person.The same impression stayed with us after many meetings over the years. When he ordained both of us along with our Covenant group at Holy Trinity, the joy in his face just beamed. Jim loved Mutual Ministry and it was evident he loved us. He made many trips to visit us as he did his other parishes. His leadership skills were exceptional. And he displayed them on a national level. Mary & I watched his television appearances and came away feeling we had a great Bishop.When he visited us at our last MST meeting he gave me the impression of a man not only leading his diocese but having the capability of being the CEO of a large corporation. He understood people and complex issues. Yet we are blessed with his last visit to Holy Trinity after Service attending our Potluck Lunch and staying with his Mary to play Trivial Pursuit.The loving banter between he and his Mary left us with laughter and warm hearts. We will not forget you Jim! Dave & Mary Johnson
The whole church shares in the pain of Jim's family, friends and diocese! He was a good friend, a gifted counselor, and a wonderful partner in our Michigan ministries. He will be missed by all who work to affirm the ministries of all the bapized.
Since I grew up and spent the vast majority of my life in the Diocese of Northern Michigan, I am unbelievably proud to say that Jim was my bishop. I find it so deeply touching that people around the country know of him and send many good thoughts and prayers. I am grateful that my Diocese had Jim as a leader for so many years. I am also grateful for his presence in my life. Through his Dead Saints' program I was brought back into a church that I adore and brings so much meaning to my life. However, that program would not have worked if not for his wonderful, friendly, joyous, and loving spirit. We have all been truly blessed by his presence in this life and I'm sure his presence in the next one will be equally if not more wonderful. Rest in Peace Jim. My prayers are with you. My prayers are also with Mary, their children, and the Diocese of Northern Michigan.
Lucinda Feller
Originally: Marquette, MI
Presetnly: Opelika, AL
I met Bishop Kelsey at the NAAD Conference in Atlanta in 2005. I was immediately drawn to the fact that the was from my home state of Michigan and that he was so humble and accepting of all. This is a great loss to his family, friends, and the Diocese. Please accept my sympathy at this sad. May his soul rest in God's overwhelming peace.
I was fortunate to meet Jim just in the past few months. Jim modeled a thoughtful and reflective leadership, and his passion for sharing with everyone in ministry was inspiring to me. Our prayers continue for the family and for the diocese in the difficult days ahead.
Jim annointed my wife Cynthia and I at our baptism in 2003. What a powerfully intimate moment, when we felt the power of God through Jim's hands, his gentle voice, and loving spirit. The image of that direct link to God through Jim was burned onto our souls that night. We'll always remember him as one of the main influences of our Christian journey.
Josh and Cynthia Ivey Abitz
Trinity, Mackinac Island
I will always remember Uncle Jim as the BIGGEST Yankee's fan. Every time I see a Yankee's game I will think of him. I will also remember the vacation to the lake with the whole family. He would buy my sister and I popcicles and all the food we wanted! At the lake he had his camera with him the entire time, so that on the last night the entire family would gather his cabin and watch the slide show of the whole vacation's pictures. I will never forget the little surprises, like haveing a mexican night at the lake, and haveing hats and music and everything. He was always so fun to be around. I love you and miss you Uncle Jim!
The news of Jim's death came to me today from a mutual friend. As teenagers in Vermont Jim, John and I were almost inseparable for almost 14 years. These were wonderful years and I have always cherished the memories. When Jim was ordained in Burlington at St. Pauls it was an honor to be there. Our contact became less frequent when Jim left Vermont but over the years we e-mailed, spoke and met on occasions when Jim was in Vermont. Jim worked hard at making the world a better place and we are all enriched by his deeds and his life. Jim will remain a blessing in the memories of all who knew and loved him.
I remember Jim from his time in Oklahoma with the "Green Country Cluster". Jim, along with Rayford Ray, served a group of Episcopal missions in Northeastern Oklahoma and were greatly missed when they moved on.
It is sad and ironic that they ministered to my family when our daughter Catharine was killed in an auto accident in 1989. Our prayers go out to Jim's family and all who knew and loved him.
Bill Miller
My grandmother, who is 95, had a long conversation with "the Bishop" at the Ironwood Church the day of his passing. He asked her about her great granddaughter that he baptized 10 yrs ago. She told him all about her and really enjoy her time with him.
I also met him a few years ago and thought he was wonderful. I feels sadness in my heart and wish his family the best. I was in an accident in which my husband died in 1999 and it is so devistating, the thought of others going through it saddens me.
Sarah
Mt Horeb WI
Sam and I are still in shock about Jim's death. I met Jim in about 1986 when I attended a Roland Allen conference somewhere in the East. Was it Philadelphia? It's the first time I met Jim -- and the last time I saw Wes Frensdorff. Life is, indeed, not fair.
When the ministry developer position in Northern Michigan with Tom Ray came open I gave Jim a call about it. Sam and I are blessed that he got the job -- as you all are.
Mary, Lydia, Nathan and Amos
Steve, Kathy and daughter
May the Lord hold you tight in his embrace.
The Rev. Carol Hosler. Formerly of St. Ignace, now retired in Arizona
I will miss Jim's presence . I remember how joyful he was at camp. My thoughts and prayers will be with Mary Lydia and the rest of the family.
As word of Jim's death reached me, I remembered my years of Senior High conference with him at Rock Point in Burlington. His energy seemed never-ending as he carried us all through long days of filming video projects on the stories of Jonah and the Book of Daniel. His boundless exuberence provided me with a new model for spiritual leadership. My father fondly remembers Jim and his brother as children running around Union Theological Seminary, and later as his student in CPE. In more recent years, my father followed Jim's work and had great adoration for the wisdom and leadership that he was contributing to the national voice of the Church. We all greatly miss him and remember the things that we learned in our time with him.
I just wanted to give you my respect and am very sorry to hear that your lost your Bishop.
I wish I would had known Bishop Jim.
He could had use my Mom as an summer Intern their in the Upper MI.
My late Mom was the Rev, Rody Hall.
My Mom Pass in France 06/24/07
How socking friends:
I hardly had the change to let her know what happen to Bishop Jim just before she herself Pass away.
I want to give you my respect by attending the special service when Bishop Katheen comes in from NY.
I am the only one attending from my Mision which I belong to is: Santo Nino Jesus in St Paul. MN
Prayers from our Spanish friends too.
Sincerely, faithfully yours
Frank Willkie
I just learned of Jim Kelsey's death and am deeply saddened by this great loss. I first met Jim while working on a research project with my colleague Lance Barker. Jim introduced us to the wonderful people of the Diocese of Northern Michigan and in the process we came to know and respect this gentle visionary and to call him friend. Later, I returned to Northern Michigan with a seminary class from United Seminary. I could not have asked for a better resource for my students than that which Jim and the folks of Northern Michigan had prepared. Since that trip Jim has occupied a place on my list of heroes of the faith. His leadership of that event, his theological acumen, and his obvious ability to translate vision into practice gave us a glimpse into his ministry among the churches of the UP. I give God thanks for his life.
I came for the weekend to N Michigan in 2001 from the Diocese of Worcester in the UK. In an idle moment this afternoon I decided to check out the website and was shocked to learn of Jim's untimely death. I remember his welcoming smile as he met me at the airport - the beginning of a wonderful weekend with Jim and his folks. A weekend of beginning to share a living vision of the Church. My heart goes out to Jim's wife and family and to the family of the diocese. May he rest in peace and rise in glory. Mel Smith, Diocese of Worcester UK
Thinking of all friends and family of dear Jim, as we move towards one year since his death. May the anniversary bring healing and peace, and strengthen his legacy amongst those who loved him.
Jenny Dawson
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